BraddH
Master Don Juan
Do you keep girls that has stds that has low chance of spreading with condoms?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How do you find out about their std? What if they lie?No....
Can you please tell me how many percent in this world is free of any kind of std? It must be very very low unless you focus on teenagers?I wouldn't, if only because it would mean I could never ditch the condom. So ditch the girl instead.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Depends on the STD. I'm a bit older but I do understand that it is more prevalent. If it's a temp STD, get her some meds and flail away. If it's perma-infected, you have to choose whether you want to be perma-condomed or perma-infected too. Unless she might be the "one" I'd bail.Can you please tell me how many perfect in this world is free of any kind of std? It must be very very low unless you focus on teenagers?
I pick up a lot of chicks. I have new plates every week. How can I make sure they are free? That is the problem here...Depends on the STD. I'm a bit older but I do understand that it is more prevalent. If it's a temp STD, get her some meds and flail away. If it's perma-infected, you have to choose whether you want to be perma-condomed or perma-infected too. Unless she might be the "one" I'd bail.
"Do you have any STDs?"I pick up a lot of chicks. I have new plates every week. How can I make sure they are free? That is the problem here...
I was told in school that they're pretty much all curable if you catch them right away. After that though, some of them stay for life (school also said that all viral stds are incurable if you don't catch them right away). I have never had an std so I don't know how badly it sucks and whatnot, but I doubt it would be pleasant.They can lie and mostly will.
It is too late when you get std? To be honest I dont know much about them: how dangerous are they and how pain in the ass.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I strongly believe if a woman is highly attracted to you sexually she will lie about her std. I will always use condoms unless I am 100% sure she has nothing.I was told in school that they're pretty much all curable if you catch them right away. After that though, some of them stay for life (school also said that all viral stds are incurable if you don't catch them right away). I have never had an std so I don't know how badly it sucks and whatnot, but I doubt it would be pleasant.
Common sense should tell you its impossible unless you take them to the doctor's office and make them take an STD test while you are there.I pick up a lot of chicks. I have new plates every week. How can I make sure they are free? That is the problem here...
And?... Did I ask you the obvious? I asked you how do you cope with this? Also what is the real chance of catching an std with condom?Common sense should tell you its impossible unless you take them to the doctor's office and make them take an STD test while you are there.
You have a few options:And?... Did I ask you the obvious? I asked you how do you cope with this? Also what is the real chance of catching an std with condom?
Because I am young and I might not know something. That something might cost me alot.You have a few options:
1) Don't fvck new women.
2) Wear a condom and take the chance that you might catch something, even though it diminishes it(although we were taught in Sex Ed that the natural openings in the latex used in condoms would be the equivalent of a double door in a hallway while the virus is the size of a pencil point---key takeaway was there are plenty of openings for the virus to get in)
3) Take them to the Doctor's office and have them take an STD test with you present.
4) Ask them if they have any STDs(expect them to lie)
5) Check for any bad smells or discharges prior to putting it in them
Are there any other options?
Unsure why you keep flogging a dead horse with the asinine questions that have only a few very obvious answers which I just outlined above.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm not trying to be an ass, but if you want to learn more about STD's, risks and whatever, the Google is your friend. You can spend 10 minutes on WebMD and learn more than you can here in days. This is not the place to get one's learn on about STD's. WTF do we know?Because I am young and I might not know something. That something might cost me alot.
I am very active with new women and I wouldnt want to change that neither do I want any stds. I guess I'll have to figure what to do on my own with your advices. Thanks for them.
As far as I know, the only disease medical science has been able to cure that is viral is hepatitis. Everything else that's viral, no cure...nothing. Something to keep in mind OP.I was told in school that they're pretty much all curable if you catch them right away. After that though, some of them stay for life (school also said that all viral stds are incurable if you don't catch them right away). I have never had an std so I don't know how badly it sucks and whatnot, but I doubt it would be pleasant.
Do you have any stds?As far as I know, the only disease medical science has been able to cure that is viral is hepatitis. Everything else that's viral, no cure...nothing. Something to keep in mind OP.
For the love of God, if you are that fvcking concerned about it, move to fvcking Tibet and live in a Monestary. Problem solved.Do you have any stds?
I am having a huge struggle with this. I will use condoms ALWAYS whenever theres a new girl untill i am 100% sure she is free.
The damn problem is that you can catch stds even with condoms so what to do? And as far as ive researched, most people above teenage has some sort of std. Is it just inevitable as a don juan to catch std or stds?
Alright alright. My point was simply that if you CAN avoid it then why the **** not? But it certainly is not possible to avoid it. Problem solved, move on.For the love of God, if you are that fvcking concerned about it, move to fvcking Tibet and live in a Monestary. Problem solved.
I have banged probably at least 50 chicks in my lifetime, some with condoms and some without and have never gotten anything. Do you also not drive anywhere because you are afraid you could get in accident? Do you not cross streets because you are afraid you could get run over? Yes, you CAN get an STD...you CAN also get hit by lightning, win the lottery, get run over crossing the street, get in a fatal car crash, etc...point is it's not likely so why spend all your time worrying about it?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.