"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you keep on ****ing girls that have std? For example herpes can spread with condom

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I wouldn't, if only because it would mean I could never ditch the condom. So ditch the girl instead.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Can you please tell me how many perfect in this world is free of any kind of std? It must be very very low unless you focus on teenagers?
Depends on the STD. I'm a bit older but I do understand that it is more prevalent. If it's a temp STD, get her some meds and flail away. If it's perma-infected, you have to choose whether you want to be perma-condomed or perma-infected too. Unless she might be the "one" I'd bail.
 

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Depends on the STD. I'm a bit older but I do understand that it is more prevalent. If it's a temp STD, get her some meds and flail away. If it's perma-infected, you have to choose whether you want to be perma-condomed or perma-infected too. Unless she might be the "one" I'd bail.
I pick up a lot of chicks. I have new plates every week. How can I make sure they are free? That is the problem here...
 

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I pick up a lot of chicks. I have new plates every week. How can I make sure they are free? That is the problem here...
"Do you have any STDs?"

Problem solved. And if you have sex with a new chick every week or so, get yourself checked out every week or so.
 

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They can lie and mostly will.

It is too late when you get std? To be honest I dont know much about them: how dangerous are they and how pain in the ass.
 

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They can lie and mostly will.

It is too late when you get std? To be honest I dont know much about them: how dangerous are they and how pain in the ass.
I was told in school that they're pretty much all curable if you catch them right away. After that though, some of them stay for life (school also said that all viral stds are incurable if you don't catch them right away). I have never had an std so I don't know how badly it sucks and whatnot, but I doubt it would be pleasant.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was told in school that they're pretty much all curable if you catch them right away. After that though, some of them stay for life (school also said that all viral stds are incurable if you don't catch them right away). I have never had an std so I don't know how badly it sucks and whatnot, but I doubt it would be pleasant.
I strongly believe if a woman is highly attracted to you sexually she will lie about her std. I will always use condoms unless I am 100% sure she has nothing.

The problem is that condoms protect maybe 90-95% from stds and that is very low. I dont want any stds but I guess thats life of a male that is sexually active with new women.
 

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I pick up a lot of chicks. I have new plates every week. How can I make sure they are free? That is the problem here...
Common sense should tell you its impossible unless you take them to the doctor's office and make them take an STD test while you are there.
 

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And?... Did I ask you the obvious? I asked you how do you cope with this? Also what is the real chance of catching an std with condom?
You have a few options:

1) Don't fvck new women.
2) Wear a condom and take the chance that you might catch something, even though it diminishes it(although we were taught in Sex Ed that the natural openings in the latex used in condoms would be the equivalent of a double door in a hallway while the virus is the size of a pencil point---key takeaway was there are plenty of openings for the virus to get in)
3) Take them to the Doctor's office and have them take an STD test with you present.
4) Ask them if they have any STDs(expect them to lie)
5) Check for any bad smells or discharges prior to putting it in them

Are there any other options?

Unsure why you keep flogging a dead horse with the asinine questions that have only a few very obvious answers which I just outlined above.
 

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You have a few options:

1) Don't fvck new women.
2) Wear a condom and take the chance that you might catch something, even though it diminishes it(although we were taught in Sex Ed that the natural openings in the latex used in condoms would be the equivalent of a double door in a hallway while the virus is the size of a pencil point---key takeaway was there are plenty of openings for the virus to get in)
3) Take them to the Doctor's office and have them take an STD test with you present.
4) Ask them if they have any STDs(expect them to lie)
5) Check for any bad smells or discharges prior to putting it in them

Are there any other options?

Unsure why you keep flogging a dead horse with the asinine questions that have only a few very obvious answers which I just outlined above.
Because I am young and I might not know something. That something might cost me alot.

I am very active with new women and I wouldnt want to change that neither do I want any stds. I guess I'll have to figure what to do on my own with your advices. Thanks for them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Because I am young and I might not know something. That something might cost me alot.

I am very active with new women and I wouldnt want to change that neither do I want any stds. I guess I'll have to figure what to do on my own with your advices. Thanks for them.
I'm not trying to be an ass, but if you want to learn more about STD's, risks and whatever, the Google is your friend. You can spend 10 minutes on WebMD and learn more than you can here in days. This is not the place to get one's learn on about STD's. WTF do we know? :D
 

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I was told in school that they're pretty much all curable if you catch them right away. After that though, some of them stay for life (school also said that all viral stds are incurable if you don't catch them right away). I have never had an std so I don't know how badly it sucks and whatnot, but I doubt it would be pleasant.
As far as I know, the only disease medical science has been able to cure that is viral is hepatitis. Everything else that's viral, no cure...nothing. Something to keep in mind OP.
 

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As far as I know, the only disease medical science has been able to cure that is viral is hepatitis. Everything else that's viral, no cure...nothing. Something to keep in mind OP.
Do you have any stds?

I am having a huge struggle with this. I will use condoms ALWAYS whenever theres a new girl untill i am 100% sure she is free.

The damn problem is that you can catch stds even with condoms so what to do? And as far as ive researched, most people above teenage has some sort of std. Is it just inevitable as a don juan to catch std or stds?
 

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Do you have any stds?

I am having a huge struggle with this. I will use condoms ALWAYS whenever theres a new girl untill i am 100% sure she is free.

The damn problem is that you can catch stds even with condoms so what to do? And as far as ive researched, most people above teenage has some sort of std. Is it just inevitable as a don juan to catch std or stds?
For the love of God, if you are that fvcking concerned about it, move to fvcking Tibet and live in a Monestary. Problem solved.

I have banged probably at least 50 chicks in my lifetime, some with condoms and some without and have never gotten anything. Do you also not drive anywhere because you are afraid you could get in accident? Do you not cross streets because you are afraid you could get run over? Yes, you CAN get an STD...you CAN also get hit by lightning, win the lottery, get run over crossing the street, get in a fatal car crash, etc...point is it's not likely so why spend all your time worrying about it?
 

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For the love of God, if you are that fvcking concerned about it, move to fvcking Tibet and live in a Monestary. Problem solved.

I have banged probably at least 50 chicks in my lifetime, some with condoms and some without and have never gotten anything. Do you also not drive anywhere because you are afraid you could get in accident? Do you not cross streets because you are afraid you could get run over? Yes, you CAN get an STD...you CAN also get hit by lightning, win the lottery, get run over crossing the street, get in a fatal car crash, etc...point is it's not likely so why spend all your time worrying about it?
Alright alright. My point was simply that if you CAN avoid it then why the **** not? But it certainly is not possible to avoid it. Problem solved, move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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