"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you guys shave or trim your D?

Do you trim or shave your D?

  • Shave It

    Votes: 4 28.6%
  • Trim It

    Votes: 6 42.9%
  • Let it stay a forest

    Votes: 4 28.6%

  • Total voters
    14

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am properly manscaped. It looks nicer, makes it appear bigger and if a woman isn't clean shaved she takes notes from me and usually asks if I prefer that or just does it without me saying anything for future.

And it benefits her too since I am not a fan of flossing my teeth with pubes.
 

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Trim but do not remove. Women like the hair aspect. Probably some primal thing in them that seeing it means it's more masculine.

Personally I think guys who manscape are a little bit homo if not full. No offense to those who do it here, it is just something I came to believe in my life.
 

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When you have abs, you want to show them off lol
I don't mean the abs. I meant around the genitals. Should have clarified.

However, women do enjoy a hairy well groomed chest, so don't sleep on it. I do not have one personally but I see the way women stare at men with them. Especially if they are fit.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Always clean shaved. Most chicks prefer that.

She don't want a mouth full of pubes.
 

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Ah, you ran a poll among women about manscaping? Or is it just what your lovers told you? And where did they come from?

Several women who liked my oldskool bush and hairy armpits mentioned that modern men are too much like women and manscaping is 'feminine behaviour', so while it might attract some women (and make a small organ look more impressive), it will make other women feel like you're too vain to be masculine or too much of a 'pleaser'. Of course I'm in Europe, while many of you are in the U.S.A. and I don't date many American women. The American women I had sex either didn't have a problem with my bush or they 'complimented' me on not manscaping.

In the end it doesn't really matter, because a woman will probably only see your pubes when you drop trousers, unless you have the stupid habit of sending women nude pics.

If you enjoy manscaping your crotch, have fun with it, but don't do it because a woman might prefer a hairless genitals.
Yeh I carried out national poll and this was the result lol

Well I'm going with all my personal experience, vast majority have preferred the clean shave look.

But hell no, I don't manscape just to please some bich.. I have gone monk mode several times and still maintained the trim.

Just my preference.
 

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Context is key. If you are in a model industry or going to a beach, being more shaven is good for aesthetics. Then again, women were going bonkers for a hairy Henry Cavill saving a ship out at sea while being shirtless with a beard.

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Just like with other traits, being hairy or not is one of the additions to you being a man. Henry Cavill is fit and is doing an alpha roles, so the hair is just a supplement, not what makes him the entire package. Some women want the hairy one and some will want the non hairy one.

If we are talking from a biology point of view, by default women will prefer the animal man. Even if some will not admit it due to social opinion or their own ignorance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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