"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you guys shave or trim your D?

Do you trim or shave your D?

  • Shave It

    Votes: 4 28.6%
  • Trim It

    Votes: 6 42.9%
  • Let it stay a forest

    Votes: 4 28.6%

  • Total voters
    14

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BackInTheGame78

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I am properly manscaped. It looks nicer, makes it appear bigger and if a woman isn't clean shaved she takes notes from me and usually asks if I prefer that or just does it without me saying anything for future.

And it benefits her too since I am not a fan of flossing my teeth with pubes.
 

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Trim but do not remove. Women like the hair aspect. Probably some primal thing in them that seeing it means it's more masculine.

Personally I think guys who manscape are a little bit homo if not full. No offense to those who do it here, it is just something I came to believe in my life.
 

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When you have abs, you want to show them off lol
I don't mean the abs. I meant around the genitals. Should have clarified.

However, women do enjoy a hairy well groomed chest, so don't sleep on it. I do not have one personally but I see the way women stare at men with them. Especially if they are fit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Always clean shaved. Most chicks prefer that.

She don't want a mouth full of pubes.
 

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Ah, you ran a poll among women about manscaping? Or is it just what your lovers told you? And where did they come from?

Several women who liked my oldskool bush and hairy armpits mentioned that modern men are too much like women and manscaping is 'feminine behaviour', so while it might attract some women (and make a small organ look more impressive), it will make other women feel like you're too vain to be masculine or too much of a 'pleaser'. Of course I'm in Europe, while many of you are in the U.S.A. and I don't date many American women. The American women I had sex either didn't have a problem with my bush or they 'complimented' me on not manscaping.

In the end it doesn't really matter, because a woman will probably only see your pubes when you drop trousers, unless you have the stupid habit of sending women nude pics.

If you enjoy manscaping your crotch, have fun with it, but don't do it because a woman might prefer a hairless genitals.
Yeh I carried out national poll and this was the result lol

Well I'm going with all my personal experience, vast majority have preferred the clean shave look.

But hell no, I don't manscape just to please some bich.. I have gone monk mode several times and still maintained the trim.

Just my preference.
 

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Context is key. If you are in a model industry or going to a beach, being more shaven is good for aesthetics. Then again, women were going bonkers for a hairy Henry Cavill saving a ship out at sea while being shirtless with a beard.

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Just like with other traits, being hairy or not is one of the additions to you being a man. Henry Cavill is fit and is doing an alpha roles, so the hair is just a supplement, not what makes him the entire package. Some women want the hairy one and some will want the non hairy one.

If we are talking from a biology point of view, by default women will prefer the animal man. Even if some will not admit it due to social opinion or their own ignorance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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