"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
do you guys add your gfs to facebook?
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Absolutely. Let them see their competition.
Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
Why do people ask the littlest, silliest most obvious questions?
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
was wondering the samething! =/Gray The Prince said:Yeah. I don't see why you wouldn't
Why do people ask the littlest, silliest most obvious questions?
Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
Gray The Prince said:Yeah. I don't see why you wouldn't
Why do people ask the littlest, silliest most obvious questions?
ya i know i used to be like that, its not like we are doing math here, their is no one right way or a specific formula, being dj is more like art
However If u're not solid on your facebook or doubtful I would suggest you to avoid it,it could be a trap and you would risk for no real benefit.
Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
donno if i mentioned but i took almost everything out of my profile, it used to be nerdy, but now i have like 5 good recent pics, took a long time to untag and delete everything. basic basic info not even my relationship status is on their.Strelok said:
i did this with alot of things because of a physcology idea that i heard about in class.
the following is more for interest for those who are interested in human behavior like me. (doing my minor degree in psychology)
People will always fill the unknown or blank spaces with positive stuff. if the little that they see is positive
heres how it works with guys as an example, say you see a girl walking from behind but too far away to really see well, your like "oh shes hot!" get closer and shes really ugly. your brain just filled in what you couldn't see with positive stuff because you saw a few brief positive traits. this works as well with first impressions and facebook, as long as your dont show anything AFC or bad in the little you show, less is more, and the brain fills in the rest with great stuff, thats why not telling someone your life story works well.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lordtwiggie
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^ That!SamTheHobit said: