"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do you guys add your gfs to facebook?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Facebook = Death
 

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yes, i have next to nothing on my profile and am friends with tons of girls that allways post on my stuff, so makes em more interested and they cant creep it to get more info on me, im not on their at all to chat with em though.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gray The Prince said:
Yeah. I don't see why you wouldn't



Why do people ask the littlest, silliest most obvious questions? :confused:
was wondering the samething! =/
 

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Gray The Prince said:
Yeah. I don't see why you wouldn't



Why do people ask the littlest, silliest most obvious questions? :confused:

ya i know i used to be like that, its not like we are doing math here, their is no one right way or a specific formula, being dj is more like art
 

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If u're lucky as bryce to have girls posting on your wall and giving you social proof go on,if u have few friends and a boring board full of nerdy stuff please avoid it cause you are not gaining anything plus she's gonna consider you a loser according to modern standard.

However If u're not solid on your facebook or doubtful I would suggest you to avoid it,it could be a trap and you would risk for no real benefit.
 

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Strelok said:
If u're lucky as bryce to have girls posting on your wall and giving you social proof go on,if u have few friends and a boring board full of nerdy stuff please avoid it cause you are not gaining anything plus she's gonna consider you a loser according to modern standard.

However If u're not solid on your facebook or doubtful I would suggest you to avoid it,it could be a trap and you would risk for no real benefit.
donno if i mentioned but i took almost everything out of my profile, it used to be nerdy, but now i have like 5 good recent pics, took a long time to untag and delete everything. basic basic info not even my relationship status is on their.

i did this with alot of things because of a physcology idea that i heard about in class.


the following is more for interest for those who are interested in human behavior like me. (doing my minor degree in psychology)

People will always fill the unknown or blank spaces with positive stuff. if the little that they see is positive

heres how it works with guys as an example, say you see a girl walking from behind but too far away to really see well, your like "oh shes hot!" get closer and shes really ugly. your brain just filled in what you couldn't see with positive stuff because you saw a few brief positive traits. this works as well with first impressions and facebook, as long as your dont show anything AFC or bad in the little you show, less is more, and the brain fills in the rest with great stuff, thats why not telling someone your life story works well.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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