"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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do you guys add your gfs to facebook?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Facebook = Death
 
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yes, i have next to nothing on my profile and am friends with tons of girls that allways post on my stuff, so makes em more interested and they cant creep it to get more info on me, im not on their at all to chat with em though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gray The Prince said:
Yeah. I don't see why you wouldn't



Why do people ask the littlest, silliest most obvious questions? :confused:
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was wondering the samething! =/
 
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Gray The Prince said:
Yeah. I don't see why you wouldn't



Why do people ask the littlest, silliest most obvious questions? :confused:
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ya i know i used to be like that, its not like we are doing math here, their is no one right way or a specific formula, being dj is more like art
 
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If u're lucky as bryce to have girls posting on your wall and giving you social proof go on,if u have few friends and a boring board full of nerdy stuff please avoid it cause you are not gaining anything plus she's gonna consider you a loser according to modern standard.

However If u're not solid on your facebook or doubtful I would suggest you to avoid it,it could be a trap and you would risk for no real benefit.
 
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Strelok said:
If u're lucky as bryce to have girls posting on your wall and giving you social proof go on,if u have few friends and a boring board full of nerdy stuff please avoid it cause you are not gaining anything plus she's gonna consider you a loser according to modern standard.

However If u're not solid on your facebook or doubtful I would suggest you to avoid it,it could be a trap and you would risk for no real benefit.
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donno if i mentioned but i took almost everything out of my profile, it used to be nerdy, but now i have like 5 good recent pics, took a long time to untag and delete everything. basic basic info not even my relationship status is on their.

i did this with alot of things because of a physcology idea that i heard about in class.


the following is more for interest for those who are interested in human behavior like me. (doing my minor degree in psychology)

People will always fill the unknown or blank spaces with positive stuff. if the little that they see is positive

heres how it works with guys as an example, say you see a girl walking from behind but too far away to really see well, your like "oh shes hot!" get closer and shes really ugly. your brain just filled in what you couldn't see with positive stuff because you saw a few brief positive traits. this works as well with first impressions and facebook, as long as your dont show anything AFC or bad in the little you show, less is more, and the brain fills in the rest with great stuff, thats why not telling someone your life story works well.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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