"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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do you guys add your gfs to facebook?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Facebook = Death
 

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yes, i have next to nothing on my profile and am friends with tons of girls that allways post on my stuff, so makes em more interested and they cant creep it to get more info on me, im not on their at all to chat with em though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Gray The Prince said:
Yeah. I don't see why you wouldn't



Why do people ask the littlest, silliest most obvious questions? :confused:
was wondering the samething! =/
 

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Gray The Prince said:
Yeah. I don't see why you wouldn't



Why do people ask the littlest, silliest most obvious questions? :confused:

ya i know i used to be like that, its not like we are doing math here, their is no one right way or a specific formula, being dj is more like art
 

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If u're lucky as bryce to have girls posting on your wall and giving you social proof go on,if u have few friends and a boring board full of nerdy stuff please avoid it cause you are not gaining anything plus she's gonna consider you a loser according to modern standard.

However If u're not solid on your facebook or doubtful I would suggest you to avoid it,it could be a trap and you would risk for no real benefit.
 

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Strelok said:
If u're lucky as bryce to have girls posting on your wall and giving you social proof go on,if u have few friends and a boring board full of nerdy stuff please avoid it cause you are not gaining anything plus she's gonna consider you a loser according to modern standard.

However If u're not solid on your facebook or doubtful I would suggest you to avoid it,it could be a trap and you would risk for no real benefit.
donno if i mentioned but i took almost everything out of my profile, it used to be nerdy, but now i have like 5 good recent pics, took a long time to untag and delete everything. basic basic info not even my relationship status is on their.

i did this with alot of things because of a physcology idea that i heard about in class.


the following is more for interest for those who are interested in human behavior like me. (doing my minor degree in psychology)

People will always fill the unknown or blank spaces with positive stuff. if the little that they see is positive

heres how it works with guys as an example, say you see a girl walking from behind but too far away to really see well, your like "oh shes hot!" get closer and shes really ugly. your brain just filled in what you couldn't see with positive stuff because you saw a few brief positive traits. this works as well with first impressions and facebook, as long as your dont show anything AFC or bad in the little you show, less is more, and the brain fills in the rest with great stuff, thats why not telling someone your life story works well.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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