"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you guys actually give them "orders"?

Atom Smasher

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From time to time I hear advice to give women orders in order to create a compliant attitude in her.

How many of you guys actually do this successfully, either consciously or otherwise?

I have a very polite bearing which sometimes works against me and I'm trying to calibrate myself properly. I have noticed that I've started giving small orders to some of my female customers, and they are indeed compliant.

If this is something that you do, please fill us in on your tenchniques and your findings.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My girlfriend claims she wants a man who takes charge and tells her what to do. Everytime I tell her what to do it makes her LESS likely to do it. She wants to buck.

So I tell her what to do, let her buck, then ask her nicely. This happens all the time but it's how you play the game.
 

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
Depends on the woman.

A feminine woman will be turned on. A masculine woman will not.
well masculine woman are not the kind youd like to keep around long enough to try this on lol
 

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I once ordered a girl around as we were having sex. Things like: stand up, walk across the room, bend over. She talked about it for weeks and said it was the greatest.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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