"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you guys actually give them "orders"?

Atom Smasher

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From time to time I hear advice to give women orders in order to create a compliant attitude in her.

How many of you guys actually do this successfully, either consciously or otherwise?

I have a very polite bearing which sometimes works against me and I'm trying to calibrate myself properly. I have noticed that I've started giving small orders to some of my female customers, and they are indeed compliant.

If this is something that you do, please fill us in on your tenchniques and your findings.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My girlfriend claims she wants a man who takes charge and tells her what to do. Everytime I tell her what to do it makes her LESS likely to do it. She wants to buck.

So I tell her what to do, let her buck, then ask her nicely. This happens all the time but it's how you play the game.
 

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
Depends on the woman.

A feminine woman will be turned on. A masculine woman will not.
well masculine woman are not the kind youd like to keep around long enough to try this on lol
 

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I once ordered a girl around as we were having sex. Things like: stand up, walk across the room, bend over. She talked about it for weeks and said it was the greatest.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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