"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you guys actually give them "orders"?

Atom Smasher

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From time to time I hear advice to give women orders in order to create a compliant attitude in her.

How many of you guys actually do this successfully, either consciously or otherwise?

I have a very polite bearing which sometimes works against me and I'm trying to calibrate myself properly. I have noticed that I've started giving small orders to some of my female customers, and they are indeed compliant.

If this is something that you do, please fill us in on your tenchniques and your findings.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My girlfriend claims she wants a man who takes charge and tells her what to do. Everytime I tell her what to do it makes her LESS likely to do it. She wants to buck.

So I tell her what to do, let her buck, then ask her nicely. This happens all the time but it's how you play the game.
 

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
Depends on the woman.

A feminine woman will be turned on. A masculine woman will not.
well masculine woman are not the kind youd like to keep around long enough to try this on lol
 

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I once ordered a girl around as we were having sex. Things like: stand up, walk across the room, bend over. She talked about it for weeks and said it was the greatest.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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