"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you guys actually give them "orders"?

Atom Smasher

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From time to time I hear advice to give women orders in order to create a compliant attitude in her.

How many of you guys actually do this successfully, either consciously or otherwise?

I have a very polite bearing which sometimes works against me and I'm trying to calibrate myself properly. I have noticed that I've started giving small orders to some of my female customers, and they are indeed compliant.

If this is something that you do, please fill us in on your tenchniques and your findings.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My girlfriend claims she wants a man who takes charge and tells her what to do. Everytime I tell her what to do it makes her LESS likely to do it. She wants to buck.

So I tell her what to do, let her buck, then ask her nicely. This happens all the time but it's how you play the game.
 

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TheAsianLoverReturns said:
Depends on the woman.

A feminine woman will be turned on. A masculine woman will not.
well masculine woman are not the kind youd like to keep around long enough to try this on lol
 

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I once ordered a girl around as we were having sex. Things like: stand up, walk across the room, bend over. She talked about it for weeks and said it was the greatest.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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