"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Do you djs ever cheat?
- Thread starter GearsGod
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
Ignored / rejected / complained to (about sluts, no less) the good, committed, good looking girl; pursued the hot, unfaithful, unavailable, mean, stuck up, high class, deceiving, two-faced, fake skank who just wanted sex; attempted to enter into a relationship with her (despite her playing and using everyone), and try to change her into a housewife by being the good guy that she so desperately needed (in my save-a-ho fairytale mind) - while avoiding all 500 of her attempts to have sex. Yea... Didn't work... AT ALL.
NOW, or whenever I get back into the dating gig: probably won't be looking for or pursuing a relationship, so this won't be an issue. Damn sluts had to ruin everything. Or was it me?
You're welcome for not receiving a direct answer. :moon:
spiegel549
Senior Don Juan
bradd80 said:
LOL!! This made me laugh out loud. +1
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
1) He can date the girl(s) he wants.
2) He is already dating the girl(s) he wants.
3) He never asks the girl(s) he dates with for a commitment.
4) Although some girl(s) probably will ask HIM for a commitment he usually won't submit.
5) A dj is a man of integrity.
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Banned
1. He can differentiate sex with emotion.
2. He realises "cheat" is a chick word. With a basic understanding that when she has sex with someone else the relationship is more or less over (ie:cheat), when he has sex with someone else (ie: fvck) he can stay happily with his primary until his dying breath.
3. He has a sex drive far more powerful then hers.
4. He is well aware all top tier males have had dirty greasy burgers now and then as a change from their awesome T-bones since forever and always will despite what he sees and hears on T.V. (if he even owns one)
5. He realises with him happy and sated his primary is happy and sated.
6. A DJ is a man of integrity.