"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you djs ever cheat?
- Thread starter GearsGod
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
Ignored / rejected / complained to (about sluts, no less) the good, committed, good looking girl; pursued the hot, unfaithful, unavailable, mean, stuck up, high class, deceiving, two-faced, fake skank who just wanted sex; attempted to enter into a relationship with her (despite her playing and using everyone), and try to change her into a housewife by being the good guy that she so desperately needed (in my save-a-ho fairytale mind) - while avoiding all 500 of her attempts to have sex. Yea... Didn't work... AT ALL.
NOW, or whenever I get back into the dating gig: probably won't be looking for or pursuing a relationship, so this won't be an issue. Damn sluts had to ruin everything. Or was it me?
You're welcome for not receiving a direct answer. :moon:
spiegel549
Senior Don Juan
bradd80 said:
LOL!! This made me laugh out loud. +1
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
1) He can date the girl(s) he wants.
2) He is already dating the girl(s) he wants.
3) He never asks the girl(s) he dates with for a commitment.
4) Although some girl(s) probably will ask HIM for a commitment he usually won't submit.
5) A dj is a man of integrity.
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Banned
1. He can differentiate sex with emotion.
2. He realises "cheat" is a chick word. With a basic understanding that when she has sex with someone else the relationship is more or less over (ie:cheat), when he has sex with someone else (ie: fvck) he can stay happily with his primary until his dying breath.
3. He has a sex drive far more powerful then hers.
4. He is well aware all top tier males have had dirty greasy burgers now and then as a change from their awesome T-bones since forever and always will despite what he sees and hears on T.V. (if he even owns one)
5. He realises with him happy and sated his primary is happy and sated.
6. A DJ is a man of integrity.