"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you djs ever cheat?

GearsGod

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Lets say you got a good girl, good looking too, committed. but some other chick way more hot wants to hook up just for the sex, what do you guys do ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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3countriesPlan

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If she is really really hot and just wants to get done up good for one night and isnt looking to hang all over you like a koala afterwards it might be too good to pass up. To err is human so its ok to err sometimes haha
 

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Well, 3+ years ago, here's what I did:

Ignored / rejected / complained to (about sluts, no less) the good, committed, good looking girl; pursued the hot, unfaithful, unavailable, mean, stuck up, high class, deceiving, two-faced, fake skank who just wanted sex; attempted to enter into a relationship with her (despite her playing and using everyone), and try to change her into a housewife by being the good guy that she so desperately needed (in my save-a-ho fairytale mind) - while avoiding all 500 of her attempts to have sex. Yea... Didn't work... AT ALL.

NOW, or whenever I get back into the dating gig: probably won't be looking for or pursuing a relationship, so this won't be an issue. Damn sluts had to ruin everything. Or was it me?

You're welcome for not receiving a direct answer. :moon:
 

spiegel549

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bradd80 said:
yeah.. i mean, i'm doing it right now

LOL!! This made me laugh out loud. +1
 

zinc4

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yes, i do it...but i never feel good about it....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zenaddict

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women do that to men without a problem, they just delete the traces better
 

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A dj doesn't cheat for several reasons:

1) He can date the girl(s) he wants.
2) He is already dating the girl(s) he wants.
3) He never asks the girl(s) he dates with for a commitment.
4) Although some girl(s) probably will ask HIM for a commitment he usually won't submit.
5) A dj is a man of integrity.
 

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A DJ doesn't "cheat", he just bangs other women for several reasons.

1. He can differentiate sex with emotion.
2. He realises "cheat" is a chick word. With a basic understanding that when she has sex with someone else the relationship is more or less over (ie:cheat), when he has sex with someone else (ie: fvck) he can stay happily with his primary until his dying breath.
3. He has a sex drive far more powerful then hers.
4. He is well aware all top tier males have had dirty greasy burgers now and then as a change from their awesome T-bones since forever and always will despite what he sees and hears on T.V. (if he even owns one)
5. He realises with him happy and sated his primary is happy and sated.
6. A DJ is a man of integrity.
 
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