"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do you djs ever cheat?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
Ignored / rejected / complained to (about sluts, no less) the good, committed, good looking girl; pursued the hot, unfaithful, unavailable, mean, stuck up, high class, deceiving, two-faced, fake skank who just wanted sex; attempted to enter into a relationship with her (despite her playing and using everyone), and try to change her into a housewife by being the good guy that she so desperately needed (in my save-a-ho fairytale mind) - while avoiding all 500 of her attempts to have sex. Yea... Didn't work... AT ALL.
NOW, or whenever I get back into the dating gig: probably won't be looking for or pursuing a relationship, so this won't be an issue. Damn sluts had to ruin everything. Or was it me?
You're welcome for not receiving a direct answer. :moon:
spiegel549
Senior Don Juan
bradd80 said:
LOL!! This made me laugh out loud. +1
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
1) He can date the girl(s) he wants.
2) He is already dating the girl(s) he wants.
3) He never asks the girl(s) he dates with for a commitment.
4) Although some girl(s) probably will ask HIM for a commitment he usually won't submit.
5) A dj is a man of integrity.
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Banned
1. He can differentiate sex with emotion.
2. He realises "cheat" is a chick word. With a basic understanding that when she has sex with someone else the relationship is more or less over (ie:cheat), when he has sex with someone else (ie: fvck) he can stay happily with his primary until his dying breath.
3. He has a sex drive far more powerful then hers.
4. He is well aware all top tier males have had dirty greasy burgers now and then as a change from their awesome T-bones since forever and always will despite what he sees and hears on T.V. (if he even owns one)
5. He realises with him happy and sated his primary is happy and sated.
6. A DJ is a man of integrity.