"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do You Date LTR Girls Who Use Cocaine?

soulforge

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Guys an observation.. In the UK especially in the major city where I am from, I see this all of the time.

The night life, bars, clubs are full of chicks taking Cocaine.

It's not even considered a big deal to them.. It's done in a very casual way, almost like something normal like drinking alcohol.

I've never tried the stuff myself.. And never would.

However I have passed over a few hotties I met on nights out recently, due to them taking Cocaine.

Is it time to take a softer approach to chicks who socially powder the nose with coke?

I'm missing out on banging some serious puzzy over here haha.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're got to cultivate a new social circle.

Try doing charity work, get involved somehow with an organisation that can use ur skill sets.

You're in HR right?

Offer to organise a talk in ur local colleges or universities, for free, make it interactive and you'll sooner or later be well known in that circle.

I don't even know how many times I need to turn down young women in those venues that look up to me with admiration in their eyes.

Stop with those nightlife shiet.

Seriously.
 

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No drugs... but that's me. If you personally use and don't have a problem with drugs, then it's not a problem I suppose. But only a small percentage of people have the ability to control something like this without losing control. Drugs can be dangerous and expensive habit, which gets more destructive and problematic with age. I have a number of friends my age, that have smoked pot their whole lives... it was never really a problem for them until recently. When you hit your 40s and 50s the ability of your body to recover and respond to the effects of any drug, including alcohol, seriously diminishes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hell no. Not even a consideration or open for conversation. Next as fast as possible before half your sh!t goes missing so they can support their habit.
 

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No drugs... but that's me. If you personally use and don't have a problem with drugs, then it's not a problem I suppose. But only a small percentage of people have the ability to control something like this without losing control. Drugs can be dangerous and expensive habit, which gets more destructive and problematic with age. I have a number of friends my age, that have smoked pot their whole lives... it was never really a problem for them until recently. When you hit your 40s and 50s the ability of your body to recover and respond to the effects of any drug, including alcohol, seriously diminishes.

Dude I think it might be especially dangerous when chicks take drugs.

I mean always a chance of her giving a drug dealer a quick blow j0b if she really needs some on her night out.

It's crazy man... I literally had this hot hb8 primed to smash Friday night.

Girl was hoot.. However when the conversation turned to her doing a couple of lines shortly with her friend later on...

I kinda lost interest.. Then regretted not banging her Saturday morning lol
 

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There is literally no way every single one chick would be doing cocaine.

Not every single one.. Offcourse not.. However in the big UK cities it's quite a big percentage.

Coke use has almost got a not a big deal image to it here.. It's used alot by the middle classes!
 

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I'm cool with it, I have had my personal experiences with drugs growing up and the type of environment I grew up in it was pretty normal to be involved in all type of drugs.....

Anyone can do anything, it's all about balance and maintaining, I know LOTS of people who do drugs and are successful and you would never know unless they told you.

I don't know if your looking for a wife lol but if you want some fun and casual sex then who cares, go for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Coke was used by backseatjuan back when he was in Miami but not a road or whatever it’s called. I was offered twice on third time I was told no because it is expensive, I didn’t spend my own money on it. I sniffed it on the end of pen cap, each nozdril, very little. But twice per night gave us powers to fish all night, and in the morning I was still high.

coke use should tell you she is a slvt. She gets high and fvcks. If she is a slvt stds. Be careful. Fck no what ltr are you talking about. Only fcking.
You are desparate for wife, time is calling it’s obvious. Plan vacation to Russia. High smv = no shortage of ass.
 

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Nearly everyone I know of my age group (thirties) does cocaine every now and again. Mostly successful, some kind hearted and good people, some ruthless and bad people. Cocaine is rife in UK major cities, especially amongst high earners and professionals, don't be surprised when a girl does cocaine on a night out, its pretty normal.
 

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You're got to cultivate a new social circle.

Try doing charity work, get involved somehow with an organisation that can use ur skill sets.

You're in HR right?

Offer to organise a talk in ur local colleges or universities, for free, make it interactive and you'll sooner or later be well known in that circle.

I don't even know how many times I need to turn down young women in those venues that look up to me with admiration in their eyes.

Stop with those nightlife shiet.

Seriously.
This

Imo
Night live is not the place to look for a ltr, good for some fun however
 

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Nearly everyone I know of my age group (thirties) does cocaine every now and again. Mostly successful, some kind hearted and good people, some ruthless and bad people. Cocaine is rife in UK major cities, especially amongst high earners and professionals, don't be surprised when a girl does cocaine on a night out, its pretty normal.
This is what I mean man.. I have walked away for 2x hb8 in the last two months.

Both smoking hot, both with good jobs and a house and car!

Why? Because Because they do coke occasionally when they go out.


That being said... Nothing changes the fact that it's an addictive drug?

Do we really want to be in a LTR with a hot chick who develops a coke habit?

And possibly going to drug dealers!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is what I mean man.. I have walked away for 2x hb8 in the last two months.

Both smoking hot, both with good jobs and a house and car!

Why? Because Because they do coke occasionally when they go out.


That being said... Nothing changes the fact that it's an addictive drug?

Do we really want to be in a LTR with a hot chick who develops a coke habit?

And possibly going to drug dealers!
Not the same here in Canada but imo
Those party girl are not ltr worthy, its the same as a women who get drunk af every few week.

Its a indicator of bad character imo
 

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This is what I mean man.. I have walked away for 2x hb8 in the last two months.

Both smoking hot, both with good jobs and a house and car!

Why? Because Because they do coke occasionally when they go out.


That being said... Nothing changes the fact that it's an addictive drug?

Do we really want to be in a LTR with a hot chick who develops a coke habit?

And possibly going to drug dealers!

Yea i wouldn't get in a relationship with a girl that does drugs. However I would definitely hook up with a girl that does.
 

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I wouldn't date a woman who does coke. I'd bang her, but it's a disqualifying red flag.
 

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Yea i wouldn't get in a relationship with a girl that does drugs. However I would definitely hook up with a girl that does.
What if you hooked up with her, and started to like her?

Girls on coke get horny as farrk
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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