"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Stanley
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He has nothing to show for and acts with a god complex at the ripe old age of 28. I don't think what he says is at times 'wrong', but he lacks depth and nuance. Hamza comes across as someone who read up a little bit and took what he saw fit to then regurgitate onto the masses while playing into a certain niche. He is a grifter and yet another Tate-esque clone getting their cut out of the current vougue-ness of men's rights topics.
For personal development I like Bedros Keullian over on youtube. His podcast is free and the guy's track record is solid.
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I recommend:
Tom Bilyeu (interviews a buncha different great experts in alot of fields of self development, science, biology, the mind, etc )
Andrew Huberman (A lot of neuro science based stuff about our minds and living optimal)
Ed Mylett (Entrepreneurial stuff, Health Related, Overall Life and Wellbeing)
Quazi Johir (A true gem.. Alot about mastering your life, understanding the subconcious mind, manifesting/creating your reality)
Valuetainment (Business /Finances, self development, Talks important topics for men, Entertaining topics for Men),
Evan Carmichael (Breaks down alot of motivational, business finances, success , self development related info from alot of different sources, also does interviews with successful/motivational people)
Wes Watson -- I mainly watch this guy because I got some friends who are in prison serving lengthy terms.. and it makes me kinda understand what they're going through, but he also kicks alot of motivational **** and is big on fitness