MacAvoy
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you have nothing better to do than make ridiculous polls with obvious answers?Originally posted by MacAvoy
I can't believe the stupidity on here sometimes, what kind of a dj would give a bj? Do people have nothing better to do than flamebait?
Couldn't have said it better. No substance, no opinion, no arguments... no discussion to speak of.Originally posted by JC Jerkson
This thread is absolutely retarded.
Mods please close this.
JC
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAOriginally posted by Ever onward
Yes it would definetly be cheating if you gave some other dude a BJ
Beautiful, now close the topic.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Anything that you do that you feel that you need to hide from your committed partner should be considered cheating.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Great, another tool pointing out things as if the mods don't have half a brain, then signing off each post with his usernameOriginally posted by Bill
Couldn't have said it better. No substance, no opinion, no arguments... no discussion to speak of.
-Bill
HAHAHHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHYes it would definetly be cheating if you gave some other dude a BJ