MacAvoy
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do you have nothing better to do than make ridiculous polls with obvious answers?Originally posted by MacAvoy
I can't believe the stupidity on here sometimes, what kind of a dj would give a bj? Do people have nothing better to do than flamebait?
Couldn't have said it better. No substance, no opinion, no arguments... no discussion to speak of.Originally posted by JC Jerkson
This thread is absolutely retarded.
Mods please close this.
JC
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAOriginally posted by Ever onward
Yes it would definetly be cheating if you gave some other dude a BJ
Beautiful, now close the topic.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Anything that you do that you feel that you need to hide from your committed partner should be considered cheating.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Great, another tool pointing out things as if the mods don't have half a brain, then signing off each post with his usernameOriginally posted by Bill
Couldn't have said it better. No substance, no opinion, no arguments... no discussion to speak of.
-Bill
HAHAHHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHYes it would definetly be cheating if you gave some other dude a BJ