I don't think it broke down though.
She was still coming over.
I pushed it on her to take time off abruptly. I said I wanted to see other girls. She immediately blocked me. I took a week off and went to Colombia. Just for fun. 4 days 3 nights. Came back.
She called me saying blah blah sad...and yes the dude tried to get back with her.
She came over two days ago...I didn't allow her inside, just met her at my door said I was hungry. Went had lunch with her. Put her in a cab.
Reiterated that she can never have anything to do with him as she caught him in bed with someone else.
Now a year later he wants something.
I agree with most....it should have been told to me...yo my ex came looking for me...
Maybe she was afraid of "losing" me. Although that's hardly a reason to not be honest.
She was always on her P's and Q's.... except for this.
Really....I texted her...maybe don't come over today if it's gonna cause an issue with your mom. Her mom doesn't think she should be dating right now. Focus on herself.
I mean...being made love to with hardly any effort is nice.
We're nice like that.
So
Am I a pvzzy for letting pvzzy walk away.
Fvck my feelings right?
But I'm not a player type either.
There are few golden rules we learn as we gain experience with women;
- as I said before, the truth should be something SHE reveals, not something you drag out of her.
- one I forgot!!!
Oftentimes if its the man who cheats it will ironically enough give him the upperhand. Yes women are backwards like that..lets just say that if I meet a woman who tells me her ex :
-left/dumped her
- cheated on her
-has kids with her but doesn't give a F
-ect ect
I know that dude might and probably will become a problem in the near future. This is how women operate!! If a SHE did some of the things above to him? Also fecked up but better for me..
That's why in my initial response I felt it was odd you mentioned dude is "not a Chad". He is Chad enough to sleep with two womem simultaneously, and "was only sorry he was caught ". I mean, in order to catch a cheater the cheater and victim must somehow share the house where the cheating happened..both had the same key ect.
Learn game. This ex boyfriend of her reeks of unresolved issues. Why?? Because HE abruptly made her end this. If he wasn't caught they might've been together now..
if anything his appearance was a HUGE egoboost to her!!