"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
do you believe that women go on pof to look for "friends"
- Thread starter AriMamba
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SgtSplacker
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If a girl told you that then now you know two things.
#1 She sleeps around.
#2 She thinks you're stupid.
VladPatton
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Rainman4707
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I have to add the I decided about 19 months ago to study women/seduction that kind/this kind(don juan) of thing & I have learned a lot & during those 19 months I have more than doubled the amount of notches on my belt so something has to be said for learning about women.
I now always have chicks numbers in my phone, where as before I wasn't getting much interaction with women...wasn't looking for it enough
Maybe its true when they say...what man thinks, is what he becomes
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thelastmanonearth
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Don't let them drag you into conversations to become friends online EVER!
You become friends IRL not on a dating website, the website is a means to go on a date nothing more.
I know from experience