"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
do you believe that women go on pof to look for "friends"
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SgtSplacker
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If a girl told you that then now you know two things.
#1 She sleeps around.
#2 She thinks you're stupid.
VladPatton
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Rainman4707
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I have to add the I decided about 19 months ago to study women/seduction that kind/this kind(don juan) of thing & I have learned a lot & during those 19 months I have more than doubled the amount of notches on my belt so something has to be said for learning about women.
I now always have chicks numbers in my phone, where as before I wasn't getting much interaction with women...wasn't looking for it enough
Maybe its true when they say...what man thinks, is what he becomes
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thelastmanonearth
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Don't let them drag you into conversations to become friends online EVER!
You become friends IRL not on a dating website, the website is a means to go on a date nothing more.
I know from experience