"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
do you believe that women go on pof to look for "friends"
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SgtSplacker
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If a girl told you that then now you know two things.
#1 She sleeps around.
#2 She thinks you're stupid.
VladPatton
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Rainman4707
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I have to add the I decided about 19 months ago to study women/seduction that kind/this kind(don juan) of thing & I have learned a lot & during those 19 months I have more than doubled the amount of notches on my belt so something has to be said for learning about women.
I now always have chicks numbers in my phone, where as before I wasn't getting much interaction with women...wasn't looking for it enough
Maybe its true when they say...what man thinks, is what he becomes
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
thelastmanonearth
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Don't let them drag you into conversations to become friends online EVER!
You become friends IRL not on a dating website, the website is a means to go on a date nothing more.
I know from experience