"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you approach even if you don't get the eyecontact?

the_govner

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I read in a bible article NEVER to approach without eye contact first, I never thought about this before, is this dogma?

I honestly can't remember whether I've done it or not without the eye contact but when you think about it, it is a challenge without.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lust

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the_govner said:
I read in a bible article NEVER to approach without eye contact first, I never thought about this before, is this dogma?

I honestly can't remember whether I've done it or not without the eye contact but when you think about it, it is a challenge without.
Eye contact isn't the only AI.

When you get good at recognising receptive bodylanguage, there are a lot more cues which you can approach to.

:)
 

SuavePlaya

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Eye contact makes the game much easier. The attraction for you is already there when a girl gives you eye contact. Why would you want to make the game much harder on yourself by cold approachs.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Because u never know. Most of the day2s i've had were of cold approaching. If i only relied on e/c....then i wouldn't had made as much progress as i have now.
 

daygameguy

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the_govner said:
I read in a bible article NEVER to approach without eye contact first, I never thought about this before, is this dogma?

I honestly can't remember whether I've done it or not without the eye contact but when you think about it, it is a challenge without.
lol I usually open over shoulder so this eye-contact thing makes no sense to me. However, it's good to get some Approach Invitation (eye contact), but don't wait for it. There is no perfect moment to approach, just go in and make it happen.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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