Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do you approach even if you don't get the eyecontact?

the_govner

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I read in a bible article NEVER to approach without eye contact first, I never thought about this before, is this dogma?

I honestly can't remember whether I've done it or not without the eye contact but when you think about it, it is a challenge without.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lust

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the_govner said:
I read in a bible article NEVER to approach without eye contact first, I never thought about this before, is this dogma?

I honestly can't remember whether I've done it or not without the eye contact but when you think about it, it is a challenge without.
Eye contact isn't the only AI.

When you get good at recognising receptive bodylanguage, there are a lot more cues which you can approach to.

:)
 

SuavePlaya

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Eye contact makes the game much easier. The attraction for you is already there when a girl gives you eye contact. Why would you want to make the game much harder on yourself by cold approachs.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Because u never know. Most of the day2s i've had were of cold approaching. If i only relied on e/c....then i wouldn't had made as much progress as i have now.
 

daygameguy

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the_govner said:
I read in a bible article NEVER to approach without eye contact first, I never thought about this before, is this dogma?

I honestly can't remember whether I've done it or not without the eye contact but when you think about it, it is a challenge without.
lol I usually open over shoulder so this eye-contact thing makes no sense to me. However, it's good to get some Approach Invitation (eye contact), but don't wait for it. There is no perfect moment to approach, just go in and make it happen.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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