Do what’s best for you and I used to have the same mindset.Not texting her will not put her in a state of anxiety, woman have dozens of better looking guys messaging her
But here’s how I see it:
Invite a girl out to a date, buy her a drink and show her a good time. Now you’re going to reach out and thank her for it?
A girl with high interest will contact you each and every time. If you’re worried about competitors, her interest is lukewarm at best and not worthy of your time.
Zim, chivalry is dead my friend. Texting this is something my mom would say. You’re not her mom and unless she’s hitchhiking, she’ll get home just fine.I always end the date with "text me when you get back, so I know you got home safe"
In her mind, “I’ll be waiting by my phone worried till you text me“.