Ever notice how a woman can remember something you said word for word 9 months ago but at the same time, can't remember cussing you out at a party months ago and deny it with all her might when it makes HER look bad and like the crazy b!tch she is because she flew off the handle over something stupid?
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Do women have selective memory?
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Purefilth
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dont be surprised if she also "remembers" things that never happened too.Nite said:
It's not that they don't remember certain things, they just don't (or do) want to talk about that particular memory at the moment. Later she'll reveal how much she does indeed remember.
Also, the more details she remembers about time with you, the better. It means she spent a lot of time thinking about you.
Also, the more details she remembers about time with you, the better. It means she spent a lot of time thinking about you.
If it's an instance where she did something bad or wrong she'll likely not remember it (or at least claim not to).
If it's an instance where you were in the wrong you can bet your arse she'll have it etched into her memory until the end of time.
If it's an instance where you were in the wrong you can bet your arse she'll have it etched into her memory until the end of time.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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This is analogous to the "I didn't notice" that I mentioned in the female translator.
"I didn't notice" = Bet your a$s I noticed, but I am pretending I didn't.
"I don't remember" = I remember precise details of it, but feel it's to my advantage to feign temporary amnesia.
Here is a practical example from two days ago...
Someone mentioned the ex of a female friend of mine in front of her. She said, "I forget what his name was."
She lived with him for THREE years, but doesn't remember his name lol.
"I didn't notice" = Bet your a$s I noticed, but I am pretending I didn't.
"I don't remember" = I remember precise details of it, but feel it's to my advantage to feign temporary amnesia.
Here is a practical example from two days ago...
Someone mentioned the ex of a female friend of mine in front of her. She said, "I forget what his name was."
She lived with him for THREE years, but doesn't remember his name lol.
Especially when it comes to sex. Most girls I know have near-photographic memory when it comes to past sex acts (way better than us guys do). The selective memory comes into play when somebody asks about her magic number or if it's with a guy she regrets
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A woman's memory of you also changes over the course of the relationship. When the relationship is new, she will take a positive view of everything. Then years later after the relationship has gone downhill, so do her memories of you.
Example - quote in the present - "I can't believe you stood up for me to that cop. No one has ever stood up for me like that. It was awesome."
years later - "The only reason that cop wrote me that dui is that you were such a fvcking assh0le to him."
Example - quote in the present - "I can't believe you stood up for me to that cop. No one has ever stood up for me like that. It was awesome."
years later - "The only reason that cop wrote me that dui is that you were such a fvcking assh0le to him."
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.