Ever notice how a woman can remember something you said word for word 9 months ago but at the same time, can't remember cussing you out at a party months ago and deny it with all her might when it makes HER look bad and like the crazy b!tch she is because she flew off the handle over something stupid?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Do women have selective memory?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
dont be surprised if she also "remembers" things that never happened too.Nite said:
It's not that they don't remember certain things, they just don't (or do) want to talk about that particular memory at the moment. Later she'll reveal how much she does indeed remember.
Also, the more details she remembers about time with you, the better. It means she spent a lot of time thinking about you.
Also, the more details she remembers about time with you, the better. It means she spent a lot of time thinking about you.
If it's an instance where she did something bad or wrong she'll likely not remember it (or at least claim not to).
If it's an instance where you were in the wrong you can bet your arse she'll have it etched into her memory until the end of time.
If it's an instance where you were in the wrong you can bet your arse she'll have it etched into her memory until the end of time.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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This is analogous to the "I didn't notice" that I mentioned in the female translator.
"I didn't notice" = Bet your a$s I noticed, but I am pretending I didn't.
"I don't remember" = I remember precise details of it, but feel it's to my advantage to feign temporary amnesia.
Here is a practical example from two days ago...
Someone mentioned the ex of a female friend of mine in front of her. She said, "I forget what his name was."
She lived with him for THREE years, but doesn't remember his name lol.
"I didn't notice" = Bet your a$s I noticed, but I am pretending I didn't.
"I don't remember" = I remember precise details of it, but feel it's to my advantage to feign temporary amnesia.
Here is a practical example from two days ago...
Someone mentioned the ex of a female friend of mine in front of her. She said, "I forget what his name was."
She lived with him for THREE years, but doesn't remember his name lol.
Especially when it comes to sex. Most girls I know have near-photographic memory when it comes to past sex acts (way better than us guys do). The selective memory comes into play when somebody asks about her magic number or if it's with a guy she regrets
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
A woman's memory of you also changes over the course of the relationship. When the relationship is new, she will take a positive view of everything. Then years later after the relationship has gone downhill, so do her memories of you.
Example - quote in the present - "I can't believe you stood up for me to that cop. No one has ever stood up for me like that. It was awesome."
years later - "The only reason that cop wrote me that dui is that you were such a fvcking assh0le to him."
Example - quote in the present - "I can't believe you stood up for me to that cop. No one has ever stood up for me like that. It was awesome."
years later - "The only reason that cop wrote me that dui is that you were such a fvcking assh0le to him."
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.