Ever notice how a woman can remember something you said word for word 9 months ago but at the same time, can't remember cussing you out at a party months ago and deny it with all her might when it makes HER look bad and like the crazy b!tch she is because she flew off the handle over something stupid?
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Do women have selective memory?
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dont be surprised if she also "remembers" things that never happened too.Nite said:
It's not that they don't remember certain things, they just don't (or do) want to talk about that particular memory at the moment. Later she'll reveal how much she does indeed remember.
Also, the more details she remembers about time with you, the better. It means she spent a lot of time thinking about you.
Also, the more details she remembers about time with you, the better. It means she spent a lot of time thinking about you.
If it's an instance where she did something bad or wrong she'll likely not remember it (or at least claim not to).
If it's an instance where you were in the wrong you can bet your arse she'll have it etched into her memory until the end of time.
If it's an instance where you were in the wrong you can bet your arse she'll have it etched into her memory until the end of time.
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This is analogous to the "I didn't notice" that I mentioned in the female translator.
"I didn't notice" = Bet your a$s I noticed, but I am pretending I didn't.
"I don't remember" = I remember precise details of it, but feel it's to my advantage to feign temporary amnesia.
Here is a practical example from two days ago...
Someone mentioned the ex of a female friend of mine in front of her. She said, "I forget what his name was."
She lived with him for THREE years, but doesn't remember his name lol.
"I didn't notice" = Bet your a$s I noticed, but I am pretending I didn't.
"I don't remember" = I remember precise details of it, but feel it's to my advantage to feign temporary amnesia.
Here is a practical example from two days ago...
Someone mentioned the ex of a female friend of mine in front of her. She said, "I forget what his name was."
She lived with him for THREE years, but doesn't remember his name lol.
Especially when it comes to sex. Most girls I know have near-photographic memory when it comes to past sex acts (way better than us guys do). The selective memory comes into play when somebody asks about her magic number or if it's with a guy she regrets
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A woman's memory of you also changes over the course of the relationship. When the relationship is new, she will take a positive view of everything. Then years later after the relationship has gone downhill, so do her memories of you.
Example - quote in the present - "I can't believe you stood up for me to that cop. No one has ever stood up for me like that. It was awesome."
years later - "The only reason that cop wrote me that dui is that you were such a fvcking assh0le to him."
Example - quote in the present - "I can't believe you stood up for me to that cop. No one has ever stood up for me like that. It was awesome."
years later - "The only reason that cop wrote me that dui is that you were such a fvcking assh0le to him."
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.