Ever notice how a woman can remember something you said word for word 9 months ago but at the same time, can't remember cussing you out at a party months ago and deny it with all her might when it makes HER look bad and like the crazy b!tch she is because she flew off the handle over something stupid?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do women have selective memory?
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dont be surprised if she also "remembers" things that never happened too.Nite said:
It's not that they don't remember certain things, they just don't (or do) want to talk about that particular memory at the moment. Later she'll reveal how much she does indeed remember.
Also, the more details she remembers about time with you, the better. It means she spent a lot of time thinking about you.
Also, the more details she remembers about time with you, the better. It means she spent a lot of time thinking about you.
If it's an instance where she did something bad or wrong she'll likely not remember it (or at least claim not to).
If it's an instance where you were in the wrong you can bet your arse she'll have it etched into her memory until the end of time.
If it's an instance where you were in the wrong you can bet your arse she'll have it etched into her memory until the end of time.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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This is analogous to the "I didn't notice" that I mentioned in the female translator.
"I didn't notice" = Bet your a$s I noticed, but I am pretending I didn't.
"I don't remember" = I remember precise details of it, but feel it's to my advantage to feign temporary amnesia.
Here is a practical example from two days ago...
Someone mentioned the ex of a female friend of mine in front of her. She said, "I forget what his name was."
She lived with him for THREE years, but doesn't remember his name lol.
"I didn't notice" = Bet your a$s I noticed, but I am pretending I didn't.
"I don't remember" = I remember precise details of it, but feel it's to my advantage to feign temporary amnesia.
Here is a practical example from two days ago...
Someone mentioned the ex of a female friend of mine in front of her. She said, "I forget what his name was."
She lived with him for THREE years, but doesn't remember his name lol.
Especially when it comes to sex. Most girls I know have near-photographic memory when it comes to past sex acts (way better than us guys do). The selective memory comes into play when somebody asks about her magic number or if it's with a guy she regrets
Bible_Belt
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A woman's memory of you also changes over the course of the relationship. When the relationship is new, she will take a positive view of everything. Then years later after the relationship has gone downhill, so do her memories of you.
Example - quote in the present - "I can't believe you stood up for me to that cop. No one has ever stood up for me like that. It was awesome."
years later - "The only reason that cop wrote me that dui is that you were such a fvcking assh0le to him."
Example - quote in the present - "I can't believe you stood up for me to that cop. No one has ever stood up for me like that. It was awesome."
years later - "The only reason that cop wrote me that dui is that you were such a fvcking assh0le to him."
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.