mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
More corrupt females than males because their coddled and protected.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do women ever stop testing their man?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You dont have to have a laser sharp frame. Have a few tests to determine the selfish and greedy.
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Ahh the trap of the young; that is, thinking that sayings are universal and apply to all parties in all situations at all times. As you get older, you begin to recognize nuances in sayings and words, and employ those distinctions which best serve you.
Your word is your bond is an excellent way to conduct yourself in business as it serves you, your reputation, and your clients. It permits clients to trust you and send you referrals. In business only, I conduct myself in such a manner.
However, with women, in some cases, it can and will work against you as it makes you predictable. To be predictable, to give her certainty is anti-attraction, which serves neither you nor her.
Commit to those actions which best serve you and the other party--shamelessly and unapologetically too.
I always fail the second test. Well not always but that’s the test I usually fail. Neber the first one and only reason I fail the 3rd is because I didn’t recorgnize the 2nd. I have a hard time recognizing the second test for some reason.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some of us learned the hard way you cannt be 100% reliable to MOST women. Its unattractive. Man has some selfish things he does and a good percentage of time he doesnt even hear what shes saying. Yes being perfectly reliable is unattractive to most women and they dont deserve it anyway.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You’re exactly right. I think I do miss my window of displaying I’ll walk away and it gets me in trouble. However, women underestimate me because when I’m done with you, I’m ****ing done. Forever. I’ve never changed that for anyone. The moment you stick me in the friend zone or give me the “I’ll let you know” or try to get rid of me I’m gone. They are shocked by this because they never saw this behavior from me and when they do try to come back later I ignore them. I want to blow up and tell them to F off but that would solve nothing and I know ignoring them works. When I’m done I’m really done, I won’t change my mind in a week or a month or 2 years.
What do you mean being reliable? How are some ways not to be reliable?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Be actually so busy and doing what you like to do that you have no time for them. The internet fostered this attention serving and consumer environment.
Well I thought I was doing that because I work 50 hours a week and she knows I’m busy. Plus we never hung out more than 2 times a week, mostly it was just once a week.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Females these days are hunters. Let her azz pursue.
If she doesnt add value drop her.
Many are leeches.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.