Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do some women genuinely think that it is sexy for a young man to be balding?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this:
Her own husband went bald in his late teens. “I think it’s incredibly sexy,” McGarvie said. “As a sex therapist, I’ve never once had a client complain their partner was bald.”
my opinion: This is pre-selection; the only way a man makes it past the bald door is if the gal considers the totality of him to overcome the demerits for being bald. What is missing from this analysis is that the normie who otherwise might have had a chance but for his baldness is rejected from the start.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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For the past few decades, lots of men viewed as epitomies of virility(The Rock, Vin Diesel, Jason Statham, S.J. Jackson)have rocked the shaved head. This is no deterrent to the "right" sort of man
 

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Depends on how you define bald. If you're going full shaved head and pairing that with being fit, stylish clothing, etc then it can be a very effective look. If you're talking about the dreaded ring of shame paired with a paunchy sloppy appearance then its basically a death sentence. Like with most things in life the details matter.
 

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I do believe, like for us men, there is a minority of us that like chubby over thin women, there might be a reason that some women might like those balding men over those hairy ones.
 
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The Rock made up for his bald head due to his robust Samoan heritage (masculine, big, jacked, manly and tanned skin). So did Jason Statham, he has a masculine skull/face, jaw, great stubble coverage, muscular body, tanned skin, brow ridge etc. They would still both look good with head hair though.

Baldness only "enhances ugliness" if your lacking facial masculinity, are pale, lack beard growth, have an oval non-square jaw etc. Guys like that look way better with full heads of hair.

 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Rock made up for his bald head due to his robust Samoan heritage (masculine, big, jacked, manly and tanned skin). So did Jason Statham, he has a masculine skull/face, jaw, great stubble coverage, muscular body, tanned skin, brow ridge etc. They would still both look good with head hair though.

Baldness only "enhances ugliness" if your lacking facial masculinity, are pale, lack beard growth, have an oval non-square jaw etc. Guys like that look way better with full heads of hair.

You don't want the Bowling Ball look, nor the Thumb look, or the Terminal Illness looks.

Have some stubble, get on a sunbed, and be lean. That is all.
 

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Do some women genuinely think that it is sexy for a young man to be balding?
Sure, if some men genuinely think that is sexy for a young women to be fat.
 

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Sure, if some men genuinely think that is sexy for a young women to be fat.
Well there is some weird mass fetish for huge fat arses and thighs in recent years.

But it's a false comparison anyway.
 

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Well there is some weird mass fetish for huge fat arses and thighs in recent years.

But it's a false comparison anyway.
What is a true comparison?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well there is some weird mass fetish for huge fat arses and thighs in recent years.

But it's a false comparison anyway.
I like a large safe-birth-canal pelvis. It also is the hardest thing for a tranny to reconstruct well. :rolleyes:
 
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