"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do some women genuinely think that it is sexy for a young man to be balding?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this:
Her own husband went bald in his late teens. “I think it’s incredibly sexy,” McGarvie said. “As a sex therapist, I’ve never once had a client complain their partner was bald.”
my opinion: This is pre-selection; the only way a man makes it past the bald door is if the gal considers the totality of him to overcome the demerits for being bald. What is missing from this analysis is that the normie who otherwise might have had a chance but for his baldness is rejected from the start.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BaronOfHair

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For the past few decades, lots of men viewed as epitomies of virility(The Rock, Vin Diesel, Jason Statham, S.J. Jackson)have rocked the shaved head. This is no deterrent to the "right" sort of man
 

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Depends on how you define bald. If you're going full shaved head and pairing that with being fit, stylish clothing, etc then it can be a very effective look. If you're talking about the dreaded ring of shame paired with a paunchy sloppy appearance then its basically a death sentence. Like with most things in life the details matter.
 

jhonny9546

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I do believe, like for us men, there is a minority of us that like chubby over thin women, there might be a reason that some women might like those balding men over those hairy ones.
 
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