"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do some women genuinely think that it is sexy for a young man to be balding?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this:
Her own husband went bald in his late teens. “I think it’s incredibly sexy,” McGarvie said. “As a sex therapist, I’ve never once had a client complain their partner was bald.”
my opinion: This is pre-selection; the only way a man makes it past the bald door is if the gal considers the totality of him to overcome the demerits for being bald. What is missing from this analysis is that the normie who otherwise might have had a chance but for his baldness is rejected from the start.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BaronOfHair

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For the past few decades, lots of men viewed as epitomies of virility(The Rock, Vin Diesel, Jason Statham, S.J. Jackson)have rocked the shaved head. This is no deterrent to the "right" sort of man
 

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Depends on how you define bald. If you're going full shaved head and pairing that with being fit, stylish clothing, etc then it can be a very effective look. If you're talking about the dreaded ring of shame paired with a paunchy sloppy appearance then its basically a death sentence. Like with most things in life the details matter.
 

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I do believe, like for us men, there is a minority of us that like chubby over thin women, there might be a reason that some women might like those balding men over those hairy ones.
 
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The Rock made up for his bald head due to his robust Samoan heritage (masculine, big, jacked, manly and tanned skin). So did Jason Statham, he has a masculine skull/face, jaw, great stubble coverage, muscular body, tanned skin, brow ridge etc. They would still both look good with head hair though.

Baldness only "enhances ugliness" if your lacking facial masculinity, are pale, lack beard growth, have an oval non-square jaw etc. Guys like that look way better with full heads of hair.

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Rock made up for his bald head due to his robust Samoan heritage (masculine, big, jacked, manly and tanned skin). So did Jason Statham, he has a masculine skull/face, jaw, great stubble coverage, muscular body, tanned skin, brow ridge etc. They would still both look good with head hair though.

Baldness only "enhances ugliness" if your lacking facial masculinity, are pale, lack beard growth, have an oval non-square jaw etc. Guys like that look way better with full heads of hair.

You don't want the Bowling Ball look, nor the Thumb look, or the Terminal Illness looks.

Have some stubble, get on a sunbed, and be lean. That is all.
 
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