"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do Some Girls Act Shy?

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When they like you, do sometimes girls act shy?

For instance, there's several girls who I will be flirting with one day and they are always laughing and liking it. But then the next day they are sort of shy around me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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it depends on the girl, but girls generally are very passive; u gotta make the moves or even if she loves you and can't stop thinking of you nothings gonna happen

fortunately if you don't like getting striked down there are pretty reliable ways to test if she likes you or not - more info in the Bible.
 

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are these girls freshman-sophomore age? my experience has been that girls of that age are more shy, but girls seem to be shy a lot...
 

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In answer to the thread title, no, all girls are at some point shy.
 

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Agreed with JSH.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Easy way to answer this is to reverse roles.

Say you were at school one day, and some girl you know was all about you - I mean she's looking at you with THOSE eyes, touching you, talking to you - basically you're both having a great time, and she's looking really interested.

So you go home that night and think about it, and what it meant, etc. etc...and then there's no way in hell you come back to school the next day and act exactly the same, because things aren't the same, they're progressing, you know?

That's how it probably feels to them. It's not a bad thing, in fact it shows they're thinking about you. Not bad.

But also, just like everyone in the world, women have moods, some days people are happy, some days they aren't.

Also, gotta watch out for when they're on their periods. Sometimes that's pretty nasty mood swings - handle with extreme caution (let's just say I'm speaking from experience ;))
 

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Originally posted by Luscious
Easy way to answer this is to reverse roles.

Say you were at school one day, and some girl you know was all about you - I mean she's looking at you with THOSE eyes, touching you, talking to you - basically you're both having a great time, and she's looking really interested.

So you go home that night and think about it, and what it meant, etc. etc...and then there's no way in hell you come back to school the next day and act exactly the same, because things aren't the same, they're progressing, you know?

That's how it probably feels to them. It's not a bad thing, in fact it shows they're thinking about you. Not bad.

But also, just like everyone in the world, women have moods, some days people are happy, some days they aren't.

Also, gotta watch out for when they're on their periods. Sometimes that's pretty nasty mood swings - handle with extreme caution (let's just say I'm speaking from experience ;))
LOL.

Good advice, bro. Thanks!

:)
 

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Originally posted by Luscious
Easy way to answer this is to reverse roles.

Say you were at school one day, and some girl you know was all about you - I mean she's looking at you with THOSE eyes, touching you, talking to you - basically you're both having a great time, and she's looking really interested.

So you go home that night and think about it, and what it meant, etc. etc...and then there's no way in hell you come back to school the next day and act exactly the same, because things aren't the same, they're progressing, you know?

That's how it probably feels to them. It's not a bad thing, in fact it shows they're thinking about you. Not bad.

But also, just like everyone in the world, women have moods, some days people are happy, some days they aren't.

Also, gotta watch out for when they're on their periods. Sometimes that's pretty nasty mood swings - handle with extreme caution (let's just say I'm speaking from experience ;))
Wow! That made so much sense. Nice reply!
 
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