"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do Mystery and Style Crash and Burn?
- Thread starter The Daddy
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Chillisauce
Senior Don Juan
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They NEVER fail, a mere wink from Mystery can make both men and women swoon.
Jukeboxhero
Senior Don Juan
Actually, that's incorrect. I just read a report today that some lady was doing while going out on the town with Style and Mystery. She says at one point that Mystery started having a breakdown when he got rejected by some Russian makeup woman. PLus I knew a few girls who could resist their 'seduction'!
Of course, right after that part, the reporter said 2 silicone enhanced latina's came to this club all the way from Miami JUST to be seduced by Mystery..so I guess it all balances out in the long run.
Also, I've heard about Mystery not being the mentally stable and having a lot of issues. So he's not really a DJ, he's just mastered a few "techniques" that can get him laid fairly often.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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- Jul 6, 2005
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- 868
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IN Mysterys Lounge in his journal. He wrote how he gamed this stripper and she had to go do her performance so he left his number for her.......she never called him back.
Dont get me wrong though, they are the best pick up artists on the planet....but even the greats have off nights.
Also in their Audio Field Reports....they critique them selves...on what they did wrong.
~Smooth
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
Even Donald Trump loses money sometimes.
GQ_Confidence_1
Don Juan
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- Oct 22, 2005
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It'd be like being a comic, and every joke you tell has to be a monster hit, or being Bill Gates and every product you sell is runaway best seller. Nobody is batting 1.000 in any profession.....
Dr Box
Don Juan
They are good at what they do, but you dont need to model your life on theirs or try and catch up to them if you do that then you are already doomed to fail. Try and improve all areas of your life not just how to get laid.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ok ok, your place or mine?