"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do Mystery and Style Crash and Burn?
- Thread starter The Daddy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Chillisauce
Senior Don Juan
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They NEVER fail, a mere wink from Mystery can make both men and women swoon.
Jukeboxhero
Senior Don Juan
Actually, that's incorrect. I just read a report today that some lady was doing while going out on the town with Style and Mystery. She says at one point that Mystery started having a breakdown when he got rejected by some Russian makeup woman. PLus I knew a few girls who could resist their 'seduction'!
Of course, right after that part, the reporter said 2 silicone enhanced latina's came to this club all the way from Miami JUST to be seduced by Mystery..so I guess it all balances out in the long run.
Also, I've heard about Mystery not being the mentally stable and having a lot of issues. So he's not really a DJ, he's just mastered a few "techniques" that can get him laid fairly often.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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IN Mysterys Lounge in his journal. He wrote how he gamed this stripper and she had to go do her performance so he left his number for her.......she never called him back.
Dont get me wrong though, they are the best pick up artists on the planet....but even the greats have off nights.
Also in their Audio Field Reports....they critique them selves...on what they did wrong.
~Smooth
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
Even Donald Trump loses money sometimes.
GQ_Confidence_1
Don Juan
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It'd be like being a comic, and every joke you tell has to be a monster hit, or being Bill Gates and every product you sell is runaway best seller. Nobody is batting 1.000 in any profession.....
Dr Box
Don Juan
They are good at what they do, but you dont need to model your life on theirs or try and catch up to them if you do that then you are already doomed to fail. Try and improve all areas of your life not just how to get laid.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ok ok, your place or mine?