"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do Mystery and Style Crash and Burn?
- Thread starter The Daddy
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Chillisauce
Senior Don Juan
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They NEVER fail, a mere wink from Mystery can make both men and women swoon.
Jukeboxhero
Senior Don Juan
Actually, that's incorrect. I just read a report today that some lady was doing while going out on the town with Style and Mystery. She says at one point that Mystery started having a breakdown when he got rejected by some Russian makeup woman. PLus I knew a few girls who could resist their 'seduction'!
Of course, right after that part, the reporter said 2 silicone enhanced latina's came to this club all the way from Miami JUST to be seduced by Mystery..so I guess it all balances out in the long run.
Also, I've heard about Mystery not being the mentally stable and having a lot of issues. So he's not really a DJ, he's just mastered a few "techniques" that can get him laid fairly often.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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IN Mysterys Lounge in his journal. He wrote how he gamed this stripper and she had to go do her performance so he left his number for her.......she never called him back.
Dont get me wrong though, they are the best pick up artists on the planet....but even the greats have off nights.
Also in their Audio Field Reports....they critique them selves...on what they did wrong.
~Smooth
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
Even Donald Trump loses money sometimes.
GQ_Confidence_1
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It'd be like being a comic, and every joke you tell has to be a monster hit, or being Bill Gates and every product you sell is runaway best seller. Nobody is batting 1.000 in any profession.....
Dr Box
Don Juan
They are good at what they do, but you dont need to model your life on theirs or try and catch up to them if you do that then you are already doomed to fail. Try and improve all areas of your life not just how to get laid.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ok ok, your place or mine?