"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do Mystery and Style Crash and Burn?
- Thread starter The Daddy
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Chillisauce
Senior Don Juan
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They NEVER fail, a mere wink from Mystery can make both men and women swoon.
Jukeboxhero
Senior Don Juan
Actually, that's incorrect. I just read a report today that some lady was doing while going out on the town with Style and Mystery. She says at one point that Mystery started having a breakdown when he got rejected by some Russian makeup woman. PLus I knew a few girls who could resist their 'seduction'!
Of course, right after that part, the reporter said 2 silicone enhanced latina's came to this club all the way from Miami JUST to be seduced by Mystery..so I guess it all balances out in the long run.
Also, I've heard about Mystery not being the mentally stable and having a lot of issues. So he's not really a DJ, he's just mastered a few "techniques" that can get him laid fairly often.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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IN Mysterys Lounge in his journal. He wrote how he gamed this stripper and she had to go do her performance so he left his number for her.......she never called him back.
Dont get me wrong though, they are the best pick up artists on the planet....but even the greats have off nights.
Also in their Audio Field Reports....they critique them selves...on what they did wrong.
~Smooth
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
Even Donald Trump loses money sometimes.
GQ_Confidence_1
Don Juan
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It'd be like being a comic, and every joke you tell has to be a monster hit, or being Bill Gates and every product you sell is runaway best seller. Nobody is batting 1.000 in any profession.....
Dr Box
Don Juan
They are good at what they do, but you dont need to model your life on theirs or try and catch up to them if you do that then you are already doomed to fail. Try and improve all areas of your life not just how to get laid.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ok ok, your place or mine?