"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do men who are in reasonable shape feel like there aren't enough skinny/slim/healthy-weight women?

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Firstly, I don't mean hot model women or Stacey's (those aren't any higher than 4% of the female populace) , i just mean regular OK/average maybe kinda cute women. I even include slim/skinny women with a below average face.

And does that kind of lead to men in reasonable shape being...

A. Being with women who aren't their ideal size? /dating down.
B. Missing out, going monk.
C. PassPort bro to healthier countries to get your Looksmatch/body comp match (for a man with 15% bodyfat this means a woman with 21% bodyfat).
D. Be content with Wankshack HQ/porn/sex dolls/fleshlights etc.

My thread from the other day kinda proves a point. None so far has voted for fat+, which is Number 5 upwards. Number 4 kinda looking sturdy/thick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The ones that do exist get completely spammed by approaches, or gross staring.

So they go to venues that have strong guardrails. £100+/head restaurants, expensive music festivals etc. This works until the swarming men start to spam those places too.

I occasionally get pictures reels of local nightclubs crop up on my social media and vast majority of birds just look like munters. Obese + tattooed (fattooed) but trying to put lipstick on a pig with streaky fake tan, weird eyelashes and eyebrows, etc. Welcome to YooKay. (Tbf though the blokes in these places look awful too).
 

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The ones that do exist get completely spammed by approaches, or gross staring.

So they go to venues that have strong guardrails. £100+/head restaurants, expensive music festivals etc. This works until the swarming men start to spam those places too.

I occasionally get pictures reels of local nightclubs crop up on my social media and vast majority of birds just look like munters. Obese + tattooed (fattooed) but trying to put lipstick on a pig with streaky fake tan, weird eyelashes and eyebrows, etc. Welcome to YooKay. (Tbf though the blokes in these places look awful too).
So now the only chance to date a woman who isn't morbidly obese is to be a top 1% dude?

What in the hell is going on here lately?

I mean, I've dated dozens of women that were in good shape and I'm nowhere near probably even top 20% in looks.

People's belief systems are completely out of whack with reality it seems in increasingly insane ways.
 
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So now the only chance to date a woman who isn't morbidly obese is to be a top 1% dude?
What in the hell is going on here lately?
Overweight and/or obese women.

That's what guys like Michael Sartain, Rolo Tomassi, Fresh&Fit and co-hosts are saying, yes. Probably not a top 1% Man but you need to be a top 5% Man to date a slim average or healthy weight average women. Basically, a female 5-6 can get a Male 8-9 on dating apps, social media, night venues with strong guard rails and expensive costs (like @UK manc says).

A 25% to 30% man (which is a slim/healthy weight average man in USA/UK) is left with the fat munter women.
 

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Overweight and/or obese women.

That's what guys like Michael Sartain, Rolo Tomassi, Fresh&Fit and co-hosts are saying, yes. Probably not a top 1% Man but you need to be a top 5% Man to date a slim average or healthy weight average women. Basically, a female 5-6 can get a Male 8-9 on dating apps, social media, night venues with strong guard rails and expensive costs (like @UK manc says).

A 25% to 30% man (which is a slim/healthy weight average man in USA/UK) is left with the fat munter women.
Complete and utter bullsh!t.

If you believe that, you have very little experience with dating or women in general.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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