"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do men who are in reasonable shape feel like there aren't enough skinny/slim/healthy-weight women?

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Firstly, I don't mean hot model women or Stacey's (those aren't any higher than 4% of the female populace) , i just mean regular OK/average maybe kinda cute women. I even include slim/skinny women with a below average face.

And does that kind of lead to men in reasonable shape being...

A. Being with women who aren't their ideal size? /dating down.
B. Missing out, going monk.
C. PassPort bro to healthier countries to get your Looksmatch/body comp match (for a man with 15% bodyfat this means a woman with 21% bodyfat).
D. Be content with Wankshack HQ/porn/sex dolls/fleshlights etc.

My thread from the other day kinda proves a point. None so far has voted for fat+, which is Number 5 upwards. Number 4 kinda looking sturdy/thick.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The ones that do exist get completely spammed by approaches, or gross staring.

So they go to venues that have strong guardrails. £100+/head restaurants, expensive music festivals etc. This works until the swarming men start to spam those places too.

I occasionally get pictures reels of local nightclubs crop up on my social media and vast majority of birds just look like munters. Obese + tattooed (fattooed) but trying to put lipstick on a pig with streaky fake tan, weird eyelashes and eyebrows, etc. Welcome to YooKay. (Tbf though the blokes in these places look awful too).
 

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The ones that do exist get completely spammed by approaches, or gross staring.

So they go to venues that have strong guardrails. £100+/head restaurants, expensive music festivals etc. This works until the swarming men start to spam those places too.

I occasionally get pictures reels of local nightclubs crop up on my social media and vast majority of birds just look like munters. Obese + tattooed (fattooed) but trying to put lipstick on a pig with streaky fake tan, weird eyelashes and eyebrows, etc. Welcome to YooKay. (Tbf though the blokes in these places look awful too).
So now the only chance to date a woman who isn't morbidly obese is to be a top 1% dude?

What in the hell is going on here lately?

I mean, I've dated dozens of women that were in good shape and I'm nowhere near probably even top 20% in looks.

People's belief systems are completely out of whack with reality it seems in increasingly insane ways.
 
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So now the only chance to date a woman who isn't morbidly obese is to be a top 1% dude?
What in the hell is going on here lately?
Overweight and/or obese women.

That's what guys like Michael Sartain, Rolo Tomassi, Fresh&Fit and co-hosts are saying, yes. Probably not a top 1% Man but you need to be a top 5% Man to date a slim average or healthy weight average women. Basically, a female 5-6 can get a Male 8-9 on dating apps, social media, night venues with strong guard rails and expensive costs (like @UK manc says).

A 25% to 30% man (which is a slim/healthy weight average man in USA/UK) is left with the fat munter women.
 

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Overweight and/or obese women.

That's what guys like Michael Sartain, Rolo Tomassi, Fresh&Fit and co-hosts are saying, yes. Probably not a top 1% Man but you need to be a top 5% Man to date a slim average or healthy weight average women. Basically, a female 5-6 can get a Male 8-9 on dating apps, social media, night venues with strong guard rails and expensive costs (like @UK manc says).

A 25% to 30% man (which is a slim/healthy weight average man in USA/UK) is left with the fat munter women.
Complete and utter bullsh!t.

If you believe that, you have very little experience with dating or women in general.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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