"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do men who are in reasonable shape feel like there aren't enough skinny/slim/healthy-weight women?

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Firstly, I don't mean hot model women or Stacey's (those aren't any higher than 4% of the female populace) , i just mean regular OK/average maybe kinda cute women. I even include slim/skinny women with a below average face.

And does that kind of lead to men in reasonable shape being...

A. Being with women who aren't their ideal size? /dating down.
B. Missing out, going monk.
C. PassPort bro to healthier countries to get your Looksmatch/body comp match (for a man with 15% bodyfat this means a woman with 21% bodyfat).
D. Be content with Wankshack HQ/porn/sex dolls/fleshlights etc.

My thread from the other day kinda proves a point. None so far has voted for fat+, which is Number 5 upwards. Number 4 kinda looking sturdy/thick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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