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Do men have friendzones?

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We always talk about friendzones like only women have them, but don’t men have them as well? Aren’t there women in your life that you are friends with but that you don’t want to sleep with?

I have two women right now that are chasing me, they are friends but I will not sleep with them, they just don’t do it for me and they are in my FZ.

It seems to me that if you have someone in your FZ and you are in hers then she is a true platonic friend. The problem comes when you are in her FZ but she is not in yours or vice versa.

True platonic friends are actually very valuable assets, for example, they have girl friends that they will introduce you to.

Any thought?
 

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We always talk about friendzones like only women have them, but don’t men have them as well? Aren’t there women in your life that you are friends with but that you don’t want to sleep with?

I have two women right now that are chasing me, they are friends but I will not sleep with them, they just don’t do it for me and they are in my FZ.

It seems to me that if you have someone in your FZ and you are in hers then she is a true platonic friend. The problem comes when you are in her FZ but she is not in yours or vice versa.

True platonic friends are actually very valuable assets, for example, they have girl friends that they will introduce you to.

Any thought?
friendzone for both men and women means that s/he likes you ( either as a person , either because they want something from you ) but not enough to have sex with you

as A summary friendzone exists either because you as a guy are stupid , either because she is ugly
 

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It is possible for a man to have a female friend if he's not at all attracted to her. It probably won't be a close friend though.
 

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We always talk about friendzones like only women have them, but don’t men have them as well? Aren’t there women in your life that you are friends with but that you don’t want to sleep with?

I have two women right now that are chasing me, they are friends but I will not sleep with them, they just don’t do it for me and they are in my FZ.

It seems to me that if you have someone in your FZ and you are in hers then she is a true platonic friend. The problem comes when you are in her FZ but she is not in yours or vice versa.

True platonic friends are actually very valuable assets, for example, they have girl friends that they will introduce you to.

Any thought?
I've fvcked most of my female friends. So we had a period of relations or had relationships. The reason I can or have fvcked most of my female friends is because I LIKED them as people and was not USING them. We admired each other and happened to have physical attraction.
 

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All my female friends were goodlooking enough for to want to kiss them but not enough to have sex with.

Anyway the friendzone doesnt work the same for men and women.

Guys get into the FZ when they are worth in terms of personality but not in looks, girls get into the Fvck Buddy zone when they are worth in terms of look but not in terms of personality.

For any hottie that keeps a beta in her friendzone, there is an alpha that keeps a sloot as a fvck buddy.
 

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with but that you don’t want to sleep with?
<--------this just proves the whole idea. You don't want to fck her. Im quite sure you are not spending more 1 on 1 time with this chic over one that you are sticking your cocck in.

OP there is only four possibilites.

1. Rejected
2. Rejector
3. Business (professional)
4. Family

The first 2 are what is mistakenly called "the friend zone"

The adjacent theory that runs the same template is the theory of leagues.
 

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Yes..... my last "plate" i realized i wasnt attracted to her to keep fkn her... she was head over heals tho... my new gf is a keeper and im going with that til likely for a long time coming.. but the plate i had before.. i still liked her as a friend... took me a while to realize that kissin her felt more like i was kissin my sister... i have no issues hanging out with her doing normal things.. but sexual there wasnt any chemistry... im still friends with her to this day and new gf even knows i am ... but its plain as day im not attracted to her... new gf has no issues with me being her friend and we have even had a pub night with her so gf could see and understand why i have the position i do.. the plate is definitely being an orbiter though just in case...

So yes... guys have friend zones too
 

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Alpha Male men not only have female orbiters but also Beta Male orbiters that they can meet females through as well, this network that exists isn't talked about often because people call it cucking, but it's really just nature at work, cucking is when there is emotional attachment.
 

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cucking is when there is emotional attachment.
Explain. More info. Never heard it said that way.
Biologically cucking is a symmetrical. A guy has the sole risk of being cucked and raising others offspring but not vice versa.
Im interested in what you mean by that statement
 

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Explain. More info. Never heard it said that way.
Biologically cucking is a symmetrical. A guy has the sole risk of being cucked and raising others offspring but not vice versa.
Im interested in what you mean by that statement
A plate doesn't stop spinning for no reason, there is a reason and that reason is another option. Every time a plate breaks, we don't look at it as cucking because we are not attached.

Your wife is just another plate at the end of the day.
 

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There was actually a piece of research that found most male female friendships existed because one side wanted to fvck the other side, but was not able to communicate or accomplish that goal. The other side of the friendship tended to be oblivious.
 

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I've fvcked most of my female friends. So we had a period of relations or had relationships. The reason I can or have fvcked most of my female friends is because I LIKED them as people and was not USING them. We admired each other and happened to have physical attraction.
Anytime I’ve been friendzoned it was because she found me very unattractive. I was there to be used. She couldn’t give a **** about me as a person.
 

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We always talk about friendzones like only women have them, but don’t men have them as well? Aren’t there women in your life that you are friends with but that you don’t want to sleep with?

I have two women right now that are chasing me, they are friends but I will not sleep with them, they just don’t do it for me and they are in my FZ.

It seems to me that if you have someone in your FZ and you are in hers then she is a true platonic friend. The problem comes when you are in her FZ but she is not in yours or vice versa.

True platonic friends are actually very valuable assets, for example, they have girl friends that they will introduce you to.

Any thought?
The problem is that women are professionals a manipulating men. They are experts at using guys that want to have sex with them - getting them to pay for things, do favours for them etc or just using them for attention whilst deliberately giving mixed signals to keep them on the hook. Men are generally a lot more straightforward - if we're not attracted to a woman, we don't see any value in pretending to be attracted and leading them on.
 

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There was actually a piece of research that found most male female friendships existed because one side wanted to fvck the other side, but was not able to communicate or accomplish that goal. The other side of the friendship tended to be oblivious.
That’s interesting. I have a female friend I’ve known for 18 years. She’s a great friend but I have no romantic interest at all. Over the years there have been a few cases where she did or said something that made me think she wanted to take things further. I just wasn’t interested so I let the moment pass.

It seems to me that most women try to escalate things in a way that they can plausibly deny later.
 

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A plate doesn't stop spinning for no reason, there is a reason and that reason is another option. Every time a plate breaks, we don't look at it as cucking because we are not attached.

Your wife is just another plate at the end of the day.
Ok we are on different planets with the term Cuck. Znd no a wife is Not s fcking plate.
They get treated differently bro lol.
Plates are the low barrel man
 

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Wife was a plate, what changed and why
The idea that this should be explained to a DJ.
Secs should be good with any girl. Your wife is exclusive but she should know in her social circle that you can have other options. Not that you act on it.
You choose to be exclusive.

Not every man lives this way.
 

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The idea that this should be explained to a DJ.
Secs should be good with any girl. Your wife is exclusive but she should know in her social circle that you can have other options. Not that you act on it.
You choose to be exclusive.

Not every man lives this way.
Well, let's recognize what a successful marriage is first, thoughts?
 

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Well, let's recognize what a successful marriage is first, thoughts?
Obedience and respect. Respect and great secs for the glue...that holds it all together. Your natural formula
If your wife does not respect you dont have shyt. Anc it will eventually manifest.
Some 5 years some 25.
 
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