"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do I call her out on this?

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Hi,

Long story short saw my ex Sunday after 6 months of not seeing her, but talking to her sometimes. It went well, decent conversation and some kissing at the end. Still threw some red flags up that she's still like her old self, in a bad way....She still drinks too much.

Anyway I have been just seeing how it goes not expecting too much.

So, yesterday I see she posts on facebook that she woke up crying because someone is playing her for a fool. Logic tells me shes after some guy that she is also pursuing. She did this while we were dating before and didn;t tell me until afterwards.

So here are my possible ideas.

Call her out, tell her I'm not cool with her going after other dudes and trying to see me as well. She promised "no secrets".

Don't talk to her anymore, vanish into the darkness.

She trys to say all the right things, but I don't trust her that much.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're not going to get a single reply here from anyone that will recommend communicating with her. And they're right. Why in the world would you want to have any more drama with this woman? You said yourself that she is bad news and probably will never change.

Closure with someone like this has to come from inside yourself. Don't expect her to say some magic words and make everything better. It's just not gonna happen.
 
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You do nothing. She is an ex. She owes you nothing.

You should do the following.
a). Get busy doing other things including, but not limited to hanging with other chicks
b). Stop checking her page
 
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Yeah I know she doesn't owe me anything and shes free to do whatever, we not together.

If I was my best guy friend I would tell me self stay far away.

I'm sure shes gonna text me sometime today I'm just gonna have to ignore it I think.
 
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Ultracorp said:
Yeah I know she doesn't owe me anything and shes free to do whatever, we not together.

If I was my best guy friend I would tell me self stay far away.

I'm sure shes gonna text me sometime today I'm just gonna have to ignore it I think.
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That's an awesome attitude, man. You're too good of a person to put up with this drama... And you're too good of a person to be some gal's "Plan B."

Good luck and stick to your guns.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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