"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do guys who get less attractive chicks avoid BPD?

Cerwin Vega

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I disagree.

The BPD-ex will always seem like she's way hotter than she really is!!!

Up until today I see my bpd-ex as at least an 8.5 but when I showed her picture to a few SSers they said she's 6, maybe a 7 TOPS.

BPDs up their value by drowning YOUR self-respect and value. You feel like a loser and she seems like a ****ing miss universe.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BDP and hpd are usualy master seducer. They always have a bunch of orbiter waiting for a chance at some crazy sex once their relationship crumble.

The way they behave and make you feel like batman is what make them so much more attractive then they really are.

Women with HPD traits have no boundaries they are like child. They love attention and seduction.
 

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mr. kennedy said:
I had to google BPD.
I have always thought of it as "Bi Polar Disorder" but I think it's most commonly called "Borderline Personality Disorder".

I think all parties could stipulate to "Crazy Female Disorder" and we would all be on the same page.
 

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I have never been burned by a BPD. Maybe I have poor taste in women. Lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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