"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do guys who get less attractive chicks avoid BPD?

Cerwin Vega

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I disagree.

The BPD-ex will always seem like she's way hotter than she really is!!!

Up until today I see my bpd-ex as at least an 8.5 but when I showed her picture to a few SSers they said she's 6, maybe a 7 TOPS.

BPDs up their value by drowning YOUR self-respect and value. You feel like a loser and she seems like a ****ing miss universe.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BDP and hpd are usualy master seducer. They always have a bunch of orbiter waiting for a chance at some crazy sex once their relationship crumble.

The way they behave and make you feel like batman is what make them so much more attractive then they really are.

Women with HPD traits have no boundaries they are like child. They love attention and seduction.
 

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mr. kennedy said:
I had to google BPD.
I have always thought of it as "Bi Polar Disorder" but I think it's most commonly called "Borderline Personality Disorder".

I think all parties could stipulate to "Crazy Female Disorder" and we would all be on the same page.
 

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I have never been burned by a BPD. Maybe I have poor taste in women. Lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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