"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do guys who get less attractive chicks avoid BPD?

Cerwin Vega

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I disagree.

The BPD-ex will always seem like she's way hotter than she really is!!!

Up until today I see my bpd-ex as at least an 8.5 but when I showed her picture to a few SSers they said she's 6, maybe a 7 TOPS.

BPDs up their value by drowning YOUR self-respect and value. You feel like a loser and she seems like a ****ing miss universe.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yoyoing

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BDP and hpd are usualy master seducer. They always have a bunch of orbiter waiting for a chance at some crazy sex once their relationship crumble.

The way they behave and make you feel like batman is what make them so much more attractive then they really are.

Women with HPD traits have no boundaries they are like child. They love attention and seduction.
 

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mr. kennedy said:
I had to google BPD.
I have always thought of it as "Bi Polar Disorder" but I think it's most commonly called "Borderline Personality Disorder".

I think all parties could stipulate to "Crazy Female Disorder" and we would all be on the same page.
 

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I have never been burned by a BPD. Maybe I have poor taste in women. Lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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