"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do guys who get less attractive chicks avoid BPD?

Cerwin Vega

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I disagree.

The BPD-ex will always seem like she's way hotter than she really is!!!

Up until today I see my bpd-ex as at least an 8.5 but when I showed her picture to a few SSers they said she's 6, maybe a 7 TOPS.

BPDs up their value by drowning YOUR self-respect and value. You feel like a loser and she seems like a ****ing miss universe.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BDP and hpd are usualy master seducer. They always have a bunch of orbiter waiting for a chance at some crazy sex once their relationship crumble.

The way they behave and make you feel like batman is what make them so much more attractive then they really are.

Women with HPD traits have no boundaries they are like child. They love attention and seduction.
 

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mr. kennedy said:
I had to google BPD.
I have always thought of it as "Bi Polar Disorder" but I think it's most commonly called "Borderline Personality Disorder".

I think all parties could stipulate to "Crazy Female Disorder" and we would all be on the same page.
 

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I have never been burned by a BPD. Maybe I have poor taste in women. Lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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