Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If you have to shave your penis, you have some issues.DrD77 said:should i shave my penis, trim it, or just let it grow out long? what do most women prefer?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yes it does.LostAndConfused said:don't it look bigger when you shave?
you just denied this whole forum saying.. "would you really ______ because guys on the internet said..."Stud said:would you really shave your penis because guys on the internet said girls will like it?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
sorry but the girls are American too pal... and how would a guy like you know about gay debates on the internet, i have not once came or even nearly came across gay debates on the internet.. care to explain?meitenesrigas said:No wonder you guys can't get any.
(1) Girls don't care.
(2) Girls find porn stars disgusting.
(3) Stick with girls who will get bright red even thinking about pubic hair (you will have to leave America for this one).
(4) Gay men debate this topic all the time on the Internet.
(5) Another sign of the total emasculation of the American man.
(6) And remember, GIRLS DON'T CARE!
meitenesrigas said:No wonder you guys can't get any.
(1) Girls don't care.
(2) Girls find porn stars disgusting.
(3) Stick with girls who will get bright red even thinking about pubic hair (you will have to leave America for this one).
(4) Gay men debate this topic all the time on the Internet.
(5) Another sign of the total emasculation of the American man.
(6) And remember, GIRLS DON'T CARE!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
shave downwards, and from side to side. i think the red bumps are ingrown hairs, i could be wrong but yea.. or they just might be skin irritationsDrD77 said:i think im just going to keep her trimmed for now. not too long, not too short. i've shaved before and don't like the hassle and i get these red bumps, although my d!ick looks bigger.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.